Rabu, 25 November 2009

Choosing the Ideal Spouse

The binding fabric of human love two people in a marriage is a very considered in the noble Islamic Shari'a is. In fact we are encouraged to seriously in this matter and are prohibited to make this as a material expense or play games.

Messenger shallallahu'alaihi wa sallam said,

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"Three things are considered serious really serious and seriously bercandanya: marriage, divorce and ruju. '" (Narrated by Al Arba'ah except Nasaa'i. Dihasankan by Al-Albani in Ash Saheehah)

One was due to marry means to tie a person to become a life partner not only for a couple of days even a lifetime, God willing. If so, is one of the Islamic glory that the people who want to marry told to be careful, thorough and full consideration in choosing a life partner.

Sadly, this suggestion was increasingly ignored by most of the Muslims. Some of them have fallen into immoral acts such as going out and stuff, so they were eventually married their lovers regardless of how the state religion. Some are choosing their partners simply by physical considerations. They raced to find a beautiful woman to dipinang no matter what the condition of his religion. Some are married to accumulate wealth. They also proposed to the man or woman to get a rich treasure. The best course is what is recommended by the Shari'a, which is cautious, careful and full consideration in choosing a life partner and consider the religious suggestions in choosing a partner.

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