Between Aggressive, Let Go And Proactive

Mate is the secret of Allah Almighty, who sometimes comes unexpectedly. In the 'expectation' that did not come, a akhwat can choose to act in accordance with her wishes. There are three forms of attitudes that can be done by the Muslim women in this waiting period, ie; aggressive, submissive and proactive.
Because too worried, there are some who choose to be aggressive.